Black dancers don’t make any money?

Perhaps this isn’t the case where you live? But I’m working throughout Georgia, North Carolina, and South Carolina. I can speak only from my own experience… I know several gorgeous dancers of color. Some are Latino, one is Asian, and the remaining are African American. Most of the Latinos do very well, and so does the Asian. I frequently hear complaints from those who are Black, or some mix thereof. I cannot speak...

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Corresponding from the he(art): My Target Audience

Dear Devon, You are a genius.  Your life and you living it as reflected in your blog is ART.  Thank you so much for sharing this art with the world, even though I am not, perhaps, your target audience. Sincerely, Jennifer*  *Explorer of the Farthest Reaches of The Internet, Lover of Men, Maleness, and Man-love in all its permutations. Dear Jennifer, I am sitting here stunned at your email. This is one of the kindest notes anyone has...

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So, you wanna be a strippa…

Sometimes I’m asked what a person needs to do in order to become an exotic dancer. Here are 10 tips to help you along in your process: 1) Research: It is difficult in small or mid-sized cities to even find a venue for male dancers. You may have to drive considerable distances. For example, in Charlotte, NC there are nearly 20 titties bars but only one broken down dump for male dancers. For this reason, not because I’m ashamed to dance...

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