How honest are you on your blog?

Someone, I believe it was Curt, asked me how honest I am on my blog: Pretty damn honest. I have friends worry that I tell too much. But how else am I to fulfill the mission of this blog? What would be the point of undermining one series of misconceptions by creating new ones? I treat this writing space the same way I treat a dance studio and a theater stage: It is a space for me to share myself with people who are interested in what I...

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Corresponding from the he(art): My Target Audience

Dear Devon, You are a genius.  Your life and you living it as reflected in your blog is ART.  Thank you so much for sharing this art with the world, even though I am not, perhaps, your target audience. Sincerely, Jennifer*  *Explorer of the Farthest Reaches of The Internet, Lover of Men, Maleness, and Man-love in all its permutations. Dear Jennifer, I am sitting here stunned at your email. This is one of the kindest notes anyone has...

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You must know you’re hot…

I cannot speak for other entertainers, but I myself am riddled with issues surrounding my appearance. I was anorexic for eight years. Then I developed a good strong case of Body Dysmorphic Disorder, which I still struggle with. Perhaps it’s because of what I do, but insecurities about my body take a disproportionate amount of brain space. I see myself as bird chested with a pot belly, spindly limbs and a huge head. I really...

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